Nov. 7 was a day for verification of historical data. For 65 years Rupee has believed he was born in the Jandiala village of Jalandhar. Actually, he spent his toddler years in his grandfather's home in Jandiala but was born elsewhere. Today we found out that he was actually born in the Lidhran village of Jalandhar. According to Indian tradition the female returns to her parents' home to give birth. Rupee's mother was from Lidhran and that is where she went when Rupee was due. We visited this quiet village not far from our hotel and saw the exterior of Shakuntla's family home and the courtyard where she and Nand Lal were married almost 67 years ago. The building is in disarray but still standing. The amazing event here in this small town was that Rupee was recognized by an old Sikh gentleman, Jaspir Singh, who remembered the day Kunti's son was born. Jaspir is now 87 years old. Remarkable to come so far and make such connections. R's cousin also took us to the family farm. Most of the land was expropriated by the government in 1990 for installation of power lines. The family received a pittance. There is. however, still some farm land left and it produces potatoes, rice and wheat for the family consumption and for sale. Ashok is a successful businessman who owns 5 tractor/trolley units which he hires out for farm service. R's uncle, Amar Singh, also 87 rides each morning several km. from the family home to the farm to pick up the milk for the day. This ride is on a bicycle along rutted dirt roads, across 4 lanes of a busy highway and along paved village roads. Today there is a picture of this remarkable gentleman on his bicycle. After visiting R's real birth place and the farm we returned to Amar Singh's home for a sumptuous repast - delicious Indian food. We were again treated like royalty. Two of the male family members accompanied us to a goldsmith's shop where Damon bought a gold ring. It has been another emotional and terrific day in India.
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Hello Corol and Rupee. I have just finished a breathtaking reading of your India tour. What a fabulous journey of history, family, an engagement! and of course, shopping. I have learned so much from your entries; thank you for that as Rob and I will be going next November. How wonderful to meet up with relatives and friends in Lidhran. I'm sure this has been a life-changing adventure that you both will reflect on many times in the future along with Damon and Nicole. I certainly understand the wealth of shopping experiences; the new fabrics, colours, intricate designs. We returned from Turkey in late September and believe me, our bus stopped at every roadside bazaar so the women could pile out and sweep up whatever caught our eye in scarves, shawls, jewellery and so ad infinitum. And then there were the big city bazaars! I bet you can hardly wait to do a scrapbook or iBook as soon as you get home. I'm going to start an iBook of our trip to Greece and Turkey really soon! Keep your wonderful blogs coming. Teresa
Hi CP,
I came across your blog by accident and was surprised to read about R’s Journey to Lidhran, Jalandhar, India. Believe it or not at my wife is instance I did the same after 40+ years to find my ancestral home at Lidhran, Jalandhar, Punjab, India.
I would be curious to talk further, but would like to ensure that you are in receipt of this message as the dates on your blogs are from 2008.
Onkar
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